With messages going forwards and backwards and many
thoughts of ‘mothers’ being shared –
It’s easy to see why some people are able to say ‘sweet’
words of love to their mothers and demonstrate their love for their mothers.
This day is set aside to ‘spoil’ mothers. It’s easy when relationships with
mothers are good or with mums who have a vested interest in your spiritual,
social, emotional and mental well-being, with mums that have been ‘there’ for
you though the highs and lows and even when you are an adult with children of
your own, mothers continue to be mothers through the generations.
There are those whose relationships with their mothers is
toxic or has been toxic and no matter how hard they tried, they never measured
up or heard the words ‘I love you’ from their mums. Words that build confidence
or self-esteem were scarce or non-existent. Instead of “Mother’s Day” being
special and full of sentimental thoughts, it’s a day that brings back raw pain.
Forgiveness and healing are needed – much easier said than done!
Others still have only the memory of the mothers who are
no longer with us. Those memories can bring a smile to your face as you
treasure them or bring unwanted tears to your eyes.
Mothers are there to love, care for, nurture, guide,
protect, pray for …….. their children, be it biological, within a family,
within a community and within the body of Christ.
Here’s wishing you a peaceful Mother’s Day.
By Molly Manhanga
