A few years ago, one would never have dreampt that pornography would be spoken about in rural Kezi, let alone be watched. Times are changing fast and the rural areas are picking things up from the city........the good, the bad and the ugly!
It has been
interesting chatting to men and women of different ages in Mablauwuni community
on pornography, including a community leader. It seems that pornography has
escalated in the community 2 years ago when mobile phones were accessible to
anyone and network coverage reached the rural areas.
Sexual activity is
already high in the community and porn seems to have exacerbated the problem.
The young adults said that people look at pornography in order to get sexually
aroused and then put into practise what they have seen. Some young men said the
trend is to see if the ‘feelings’ from looking at porn match up to the actual
sexual act and visa versa.
Girls as young as 12
years and 13 years are already sexually active and some are getting pregnant at
12 years old. There has been a rise in women prostituting themselves for money
and for popularity and this has also given rise to HIV/AIDS.
Who looks at/watches
porn in Mablauwuni community? Is it only the young men? Both men and women are
affected. Young people in primary schools are engrossed in watching pornography
either on mobile phones, looking at magazines, DVD’s and/or, it is spoken about openly at
the local beerhalls or ‘bottlestores’. Porn seems to be coming from the City of
Kings – Bulawayo and brought back into the community where it spreads around
quickly. The majority of the time, porn is looked at in ‘secret’.
What are the community
leaders doing about it? Unfortunately, the community leaders are ‘far’ behind
due to the generational gap. The community leaders are ‘older’ people who may not
have access to mobile phones and if they do, they need to be taught how to use
them. Some are actually ‘clueless’ when it comes to pornography and the effects
on individuals or families. One community leader suggested that they have a
meeting to get taught about the effects of pornography. They also suggested
that the church speak about it in order to be relevant in the community. They
felt that the Church too was left behind in this area.
Much work is to be
done in the community and reaching people where they are at.
Compiled By Molly Manhanga
Compiled By Molly Manhanga
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